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What exactly is mindfulness?

I'm filling up my water bottle using the spigot for the filtered water. I'm watching the water going into the container and I'm watching and I'm thinking....

There's the water. It looks pretty good... It's 1/4 of the way full. ... Still filling... Halfway full. I like how clean the water looks. I wonder if it's making a sound. Almost to the top. I have to shut it off in time... There we go... Done! (I turn the spigot off.)

Me... Filling up my water container 6 months ago....

Let me turn this on... Do I have to iron my skirt? Is it still in the closet? Have I gone shopping in a while? Let me leave this container here while I run upstairs and check my closet. What did I come upstairs for? I should probably take down the laundry. Should I make a phone call now about the pharmacy error? Was it really an error and am I supposed to take that? I'm going to call. Why is all this water all over the kitchen floor?

It's amazing the difference any amount of time can make when you start thinking in a more mindful way. We think multitasking is good and it makes us like superheroes but all it really does is make us act like freaks over time. I'm learning to live in the moment... Practice being in the present. It sounds odd, but it made a huge difference and I'm able to think clearer.

I highly recommend this age-old practice.☺️

SukiSue 8 Sep 29
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See if you're thinking about ironing your skirt whilst you're filling a water bottle you're much less likely notice if something you really don't want be drinking drops out of the spout, spiders crawl up those things on hot days you know.

Or just generally speaking, being distracted with daydreams whilst you're performing activities are an excellent way become a statistic. I've always thought on my feet quite well, been mindful of activities and it's helped reduce injury when accidents do happen, eg. I got run over at work by a delivery driver speeding into the delivery bay just as I was crossing it from the loading ramp (they're supposed to check for pedestrians in the delivery bay and enter slowly), but instead of tensing up at the last minute when I saw it coming up behind out the corner of my eye, I wasn't even surprised (the delivery driver wasn't real bright and hardly a surprising person), I just rolled backwards over the hood which went under me at probably 15mph and the grill/headlights barely brushed the back of my knees before I was up and over it. I came down to one side near the windscreen and landed heavily and sure I went to a clinic but ultimately I just had sore legs for a couple a days, not even any bruising. I would've have two broken legs if I tensed up busily daydreaming whilst crossing the bay, but being a habitually mindful person I think being in the moment just allows a more logical natural reaction than shock-freeze, to lessen injury.

I've been a mindful person because I've had to be in very rough environments at an early age, was undersize and understrength and required any advantage for survival and emotional well being, such as being a step ahead of danger by being a little more keenly aware of it before it gets nasty. Point is I started doing that for an actual reason and it actually works. It's how streetwise people seem cunning or mature, they're not necessarily, they're just noticing ten times more things than most people at any moment because they've had to, they can still be immature or irrational like anyone but are very good at influencing followers among sheltered personalities because they seem so switched into everything.

Very few things surprise me and I rarely appear unprepared for anything which people do near me, even if they're unpredictable or outside experience. It's just being mindful that does that for you and I don't find it boring. That'd be like calling a night sky of stars boring.

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I don't think it is is particularly useful as a way of life, particularly if you have things to do and a busy life to get on with, particularly if you have young children. But I think it can be very helpful if you have issues with anxiety, melancholy, and the like. It can be really useful and helpful to concentrate on the here and now and the minutiae of everyday experience to push out more unhelpful thoughts.

You actually can't use it all the time. ...That would be impossible! But it is extremely helpful during everyday life.

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