Hey guys! I created an Infidelity Support Group. Please share and/or join! Thanks!
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Sorry, I too thought you were setting up a group that supports infidelity.?
Maybe word it differently - like' Support group for those who have been affected by infidelity.'
It also might be a good idea to reassess your idea of how animals like humans mate and couple.
It's not as black and white as you seem to think it is. Being realistic could save you a whole world of hurt.
I always find it funny and strange that when peoples cheat , it's often because they love there partenair , but can't find a middle ground , can't speak about there needs or assume the worst about speaking out, or try to fullfill there needs with out hurting there husband or wife .. I have always had open relationchip and I find it a lot easier to deal with , and a proper ground for deep reliable connection , but I didn't meet many peoples who saw the benefice of it . Everyone see it a a free pass for cheating .. it's just the opposit . Give love a chance , understand your lovers before you start claiming them . No one own anyone , cheating is lying , and peoples tell lie when they can't tell the truth ..
I would love to read how other people manage to divorce cheating spouses--I'm finding it quite daunting & have finally decided to just leave & go on from there. What the heck is the point of mandatory waiting periods for divorces? They're hoping we'll kiss & make up, or just give up?
Just wrapped up a divorce. I think the courts are just booked up. I was supersized at the process. I think everyone should get divorced at least once in their lives. Builds character!
Do you think it's a good idea to support infidelity?
Betrayal and the pain it brings is traumatic. There are so many alternatives to getting out of a relationship. It doesn't just hurt the couple. It ruins relationships with families and friends. I'll join this new group. Both to read and to offer additional comments.
@MusicIsLife same here....
Thanks for starting the group. Not sure when I might feel like joining or sharing, nor whether I even have any insight to contribute, but dealing with betrayal is a truly a life shattering experience, especially for a fair minded honorable and trusting person to be thrust into handling. Having some secular support is a wonderful idea.
Sad to see some members making light of such a heavy and sensitive subject. Therefore, glad to know it will be a closed group so only those with something constructive to say, or a real problem needing to be addressed can comment.
"That kind of humour can be utterly devastating for some in the place where they are right now. "
.. > if they are at that point, should they be on any site that has a very high dating component?