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When you just have to share about a perfect first date... but none of your friends are awake at 4 in the morning... that's when you post on Agnostic.com....

Yep, it was pretty much picture perfect. There was laughter, there was hand-holding, there was affection... there was sushi... I brought a single perfect flower that had significance to the young lady's name... there was fond embracing... I held the car door after dinner, which led to a mutual kiss... then there was a great deal of mutual kissing in the car itself... and a lot of reminding ourselves to slow down, because it was, after all, our first date.

A text from her letting me know she made it home okay (we drove separately to the rendezvous)... and apparently I am sigh-evoking even in a text message. All indications that there's going to be a second date in the weeks ahead. Damn, I hope so. But even if not, what a great night. Living in the moment, it was a great great night.

Paul4747 8 Oct 20
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I’m happy for you....hell you have made an old lady wish she were young and back at the beginning of a romantic attachment again! Hope number two lives up to expectations....keep us in the loop! ?

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I know everyone is different, but for me, the gesture of bringing flower(s), holding a door, etc. are very much appreciated! You sound like quite the gentleman. I hope things continue to progress for you!

Thank you... it just seemed like the right thing to do. πŸ™‚

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This. We need more of this!

I certainly do...

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I'm so happy to hear you had an awesome date! I hope there's more! #TeamPaul

Thank you! I've never had a Team before!

Go Paul! #TeamPaul ?

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What a great night for you and hope it’s the prelude of a second.

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That sounds so sweet.

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Gentlemen don't tell.

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When i first started dating after my divorce I didnt understand this "chemistry" people were talking about.. i get it now.. sounds like you do to πŸ™‚

I hope so anyway, HD

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Congrats!! Those times are few and precious!

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Kudos to you! You apparently struck just the right balance....which is not always easy to do these days. Here's hoping there are many, many more great nights with your special lady.

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Congratulations!!!

Thank you...

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Good for you!

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Good for you, I hope all goes well for both of you.

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Good for you, nice to hear. Hope this was the first of many πŸ™‚

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That's fantastic!
Good luck moving forward.

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Good for you! I hope a second date materializes!

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Sounds like a wonderful evening. Hope things continue to go smoothly and happily.

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Wow! How do you do that?

Can't tell you how it happened, it just happened. We connected from the time we first started chatting. I really hope it continues this way.

@Paul4747 all the best!

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Perfect! So happy for you!

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I'm glad it's working out for you. I hope you don't mind some sharing of different route. We have exceptionally healthy people and safe areas but nice areas do attract troublesome sorts, too. Here I quit risking solo dating and insist on group activities, sort of like a safety belt. Considering how though some are exceptionally healthy, I don't go for physical shows of affection, especially what seems like foreplay when there haven't been any lab tests or commitment, too risky, safety pup. I haven't met anyone up for that even for preliminary getting to know each other for years, but at least I haven't been crime victim or received a surprise gift of a disease.

I respect that. We did share about one another's histories extensively, enough that I am confident neither of us is hiding any surprises.

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Congrats on a good first date.. Good luck on the second! ?

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Aaawwww!! So sweet! ☺️ Thanks for sharing

Tilia Level 7 Oct 20, 2018
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Good for you, Paul !!!
Wish I were in your shoes.

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Good luck!!

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Those kind of dates are awesome. Did you meet her here? I'm happy for you! Good luck!

No, we met on another site which I will not mention unless they kick back an endorsement πŸ˜‰ but she is agnostic as well. (Well, sort of... she believes in spiritual energy and things of that nature, but definitely not a traditional Xian which is good enough for me.)

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