Do you consider yourself a good lover to your partner or spouse and why?
Yes I do, perhaps as a young man I wanted and needed love badly. With that I nourished my understanding of sexual pleasure. The woman is the most important person in the bed and then there is me. Foreplay is an experience that is so special it is unique to the couple.
 EMC2
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Dec 16, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    EMC2
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Dec 16, 2018                                            
                                        I'm average. If I ever felt I was any better than that I'd get complacent and stop trying.
I'm generally supportive and thoughtful. We still can make each other laugh and I remember her birthday (not difficult as we were born of the same day!) and look after our family.
I'm also prone to grumpiness (especially when tired) and feeling down (I'm going through a tough time at work which isn't helping, and I'm not depressed in a clinical sense). I'm generally crap at helping around the house (I do my jobs, but she's a clean freak and I'm..... Not). I'm also a terrible cook. I could burn salad!
 andykb3
                                                
                                                Level 4
                                                Oct 27, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    andykb3
                                                
                                                Level 4
                                                Oct 27, 2018                                            
                                        Depends on how much play my partner is into. If they're into games, it's beyond perfect. If not, then I tend to be not that much into it...
 JazznBlues
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Oct 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    JazznBlues
                                                
                                                Level 8
                                                Oct 26, 2018                                            
                                        Probably as good as anybody else. Why? I'm knowledgeable.
 DenoPenno
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Oct 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    DenoPenno
                                                
                                                Level 9
                                                Oct 26, 2018                                            
                                        Is a badly asked question. I think i should have been more specific. Just trying to get a feel of what everyone thinks a good partner should be like in general so i can then reflect those points on myself to see how i measure up.
I have been married for 52 years, When I was younger i had a woman twice my age when i was 18 and still a virgin, take my virginity. We made love almost everyday straight for 2 years, and even a few months after our 1st experience, she still refuse to believe i was a virgin the 1st time we made love. She taught me everything, (AND I MEAN EVERYTHING) at her 40th birthday party my wife went up to her, and said I can't thank you enough for everything you taught my husband, in my world the lady always cums 1st.
 TonyCarl1
                                                
                                                Level 6
                                                Apr 6, 2019
                                            
                                                
                                                    TonyCarl1
                                                
                                                Level 6
                                                Apr 6, 2019                                            
                                        Yes I DO because I've been told so AND I'm Always given compliments in the moment !
 flowerchild62
                                                
                                                Level 6
                                                Dec 26, 2018
                                            
                                                
                                                    flowerchild62
                                                
                                                Level 6
                                                Dec 26, 2018                                            
                                        do you have reference...lol