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How much stock do you put in a college education these days? Have you or would you insist on your children getting one (And spending the next 15 years paying it off) or do you have little respect for the colleges of today and prefer apprenticeships, and learning trades?

Queenlyhippy 4 Feb 4
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I have a degree in mechanical engineering. I have never wanted for a job. I started out in the US Coast Guard after high school and I didn't want to go back to school. After the military, I took an apprenticeship in pipefitting in the shipyards. I was a pipefitter for 10 years. I went back to school after watching a young friend fall 60 feet from a girder and die. I figured I klutzy enough I would eventually get hurt. It took 7 years to get myself through all the classes I had to take while working and I wasn't the smartest student, but I passed. I went back into construction and today I work with pipefitters, electricians, welders, millwrights, and every trade you can think of. My daughter wants to be a human rights lawyer someday, she has great grades and is going to university on a full acedemic scholarship. I have great respect for those tradesmen and my daughter. Education comes in many forms. you should always keep an open mind and learn in whatever role you take in life.

Phin Level 6 Mar 18, 2018
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I would never give up my education, it’s the one thing that can never be taken away. However, I don’t think that college is for everyone and I also don’t think that 18 yr olds should be pushed to start college as soon as they finish high school. Give them time to learn who they are and what they want.

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I am an engineer working in the oil industry. I make good money with four years of college and I have no debt.
I work with operators who make good money with a high school diploma. Some make more than me.

The most palatable difference between us isn‘t necessarily white collar vs blue collar. You definitely Need to respect their knowledge and what they contribute. It is job security. I feel confident that I can basically get a job again easy in 6 months if I got laid off unexpectedly without much loss in seniority and pay. I don‘t sense the same confidence from them. There is just so much more competition that they have to contend with for high paying blue collar jobs than for high paying white collar jobs. Seems like you often have to know someone to get an edge (there are more father-son, father-daughter pairs among the operators).

Myah Level 6 Feb 4, 2018
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It worked for me. The two most important things:

  • Choose the major very carefully. You want a major that will pay for itself, not make you an expert on ancient Mesopotamia.

  • Borrow as little as possible, none at all if it's doable. Avoid debt as much as possible. Work, work, work while in college. It is better to take longer completing a degree than to cram so much coursework into each semester that work is impractical or impossible. This also has the benefit of allowing significant work experience on one's resume after graduation. Having a degree AND work experience is more impressive than having a degree and NO work experience. Additionally, AFTER college, make paying off student debt your #1 top priority. There will be plenty of time later for acquiring material things.

All of this said, one does not need a college degree to make good money. As I said, it worked for me, but I know plenty of folks with a degree and a job doing something completely unrelated for a career, making peanuts. I also know people who make more than I do who never finished high school.

In the end, it's more about work ethic, persistence, ambition, and determination than it is about one's background. The go-getters will be the ones who get ahead.

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I have two degrees and I made more money before I got them. It's a waste of time as all the markets are over saturated.

From what I have seen, I tend to agree. I know so many overqualified and unhired College graduates, Yet the trade jobs are begging for people to even train!!

Both my degrees are in trades, health and occupational sciences of gunsmithing.

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If your child has the ability to benefit from a college education and if his or her career choices require further education, a college education is always worth it. There will be many benefits, including increased lifetime earnings.

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I wish I could go back and attend a trade school so I could start a career right after high school. I always hated school and refused to go to college after graduation, not wanting to further subject myself to studies I was not interested in but was obligated to pass. I wholeheartedly disagree that a high school diploma is not deserved by those who don't find algebra worth their brain power. I went to work after high school, and now wish I had some sort of formal training and a clear career path. Those I know who attended a trade school are leaps and bounds ahead of me financially and professionally (no college debt, more time to hone their craft). The way things are currently, having not gone to a traditional four year college, I am no worse off than my peers who did. In fact, I currently make more than most people I know who have a degree, and have less financial stress due to a smaller student loan from an online course (which still wasn't worth the money, btw). If I were to have kids, the choice would be theirs - however, given my experience, I would recommend trade school.

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Based on my experience and observation, with a 4-year degree you learn HOW to learn. A Master’s makes you capable in some specialty. In assessing the value of my education, aside from a significant economic advantage, I recognized the abyss of my ignorance as I learned more and more (that’s a good thing); while humbling, it fuels the need to continue learning. Had I not had the opportunity to go to college, I’m quite sure I would have succeeded in a trade because of my attitude. So, while education is valuable, attitude is far more important.

I learned that attitude in college as well and it served me well, but I wonder if it was just that time in my life and being exposed to people who were good at something I was also good at. . . I suspect any trade school or job setting could have done the same. Yet any school setting tends to teach you how to be a sheep, more than teach you how to learn. . . So I'm kind of leaning towards being self taught online myself.

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I put a lot of stock in it. If I had kids, it depends. I they were academically curious and smart, I'd want them to go to college. If they had no interest in academics, were not interested in a career that required a degree, then some trade or tech school would be fine. I'd want to make sure the trade is not one that will be soon replaced by automation.

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My daughter was fortunate enough to get a scholarship and grants so she shouldn't be spending years paying off her education. I agree that college isn't for everyone but I do have a problem with parents actively discouraging education.

gearl Level 8 Feb 4, 2018

I doubt any parent would discourage education. . . I certainly don't! I'm not thrilled about the indoctrination in a college setting for sure, but you can always do online, and it's not too bad! In fact, I know an Atheist who went to Liberty University, A well known Christian University. . . And taking it online managed to not get kicked out!

@Queenlyhippy I personally know a few people that don't want their children indoctrinated with evolutionary thinking so they do discourage higher education and want their kids to attend trade schools instead or just get married and be house wives. I'm not against trade schools but what if a kid wants a future with biology as a core subject?

@gearl If they do then that is up to them but I would encourage doing something with their hands as well as their minds. And in an ideal world I think the woman's place should be in the home, But women need a security blanket now because there are so few men able or willing to support their wife and children in the home.

@Queenlyhippy Believe me, my daughter would argue with you big time on the woman's place in the home belief that you have. Shouldn't women be able to decide that and their education for themselves?

@gearl Yes of course they should but I'm very against a high education for women because in the end they don't want to work it and pay off all the debt and instead want a family. Feminism has destroyed the family but it's debatable why familism came up in the 1st place but I suspect it's because men were not doing their role very well and women had to learn to support themselves.
Anyways I don't debate people online about such emotional subjects. It's pointless as there is too much background to catch up with.

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I wonder if we make education so difficult to attain so that we won't have an educated/involved voting population? I think a lot of people vote with their 'feels' instead of their 'heads', not so much because they aren't intelligent, but because they don't know how to do research. Hmmm. I started to type that 'we need free education....' and wound up here. As for apprenticeships or trades, that should also be an option.

That's an interesting perspective. To me, that is one of the points of education, doing something that takes work and perseverance. When I am hiring, almost all of the candidates have at least a bachelor's degree. I will hire someone without a degree occasionally if they have a good reason for not completing their degree and are smart and have experience.

Access to education and the expectation of getting one is a given from my perspective. Granted my parents were academics and I grew up in an upper middle class area. At least 90% of my high school class went to college. I feel fortunate in that regard.

I think free education is a great idea as the better educated we all are, the less likely people like Trump will get elected.

@shockwaverider I grew up well below the poverty level with serious home issues. I got A's on all my tests, but had a real problem doing homework. When it came time for college applications, it turned out I had an awful handicap...I had my dad's VA benefits of 5 or 6 hundred a month in college money. It killed my ability to go to any good school. So I went into the marines, as do a lot of poor people who have not a lot of options. When I got out, I sent to community college, figuring I would get my basics for my associates out of the way, and then hit my degree (this was the late 80's). I packed about 3 years of school in 2 years and when it came time to transfer, none of my promised classes, including gym, were transferable. I was going to have to start over again. I formed a band or 10, and moved on. Nowadays, there are so many college graduates who owe and work 'menial' jobs. You are gambling for very little gain when you go to college, now, or so it seems from my friends with BA and above. My ex was highly educated and was lucky to have a 16 dollar an hour job.

@JohnnyThorazine That makes sense and sucks... My undergrad degree is in computing science and psychology. The university I went to had an internship program so I had over a years worth of job experience in tech when I graduated. In my field, a degree is almost a requirement.

Living by your feelings is correlated with lower intelligence unfortunately and with the dumbing down of society and a lot of immigration from by average low IQ countries. . . We clearly are having a problem with not just lack of educated people but a lack of people who have the potential to be educated!!

@Queenlyhippy No. Just a simple no. Xenophobia is a problem of the fearful, not the person feared. 'IQ' tests are a bad representation of intelligence. It was meant to measure the intelligence potential of children. And I assume you are talking about United States citizens immigrating to other countries, but I don't think people should hold that against us. We may be uneducated, but we are also not willing to work hard....hehe...we are very lucky that we had these immigrants come to our country...otherwise you wouldn't be here and neither would I. Wonder what the education level of your immigrant family was? And look up the ratio of homelessness by race....we white people dominate! GO WHITE PEOPLE!...hehe

@JohnnyThorazine You are apparently too conditioned by bad statistics not taking into account the proportion of whites versus other races in this country. . . I used to blog on such things. I don't care to get into it and I don't have time but suffice it to say, you're sorely mistaken.

@Queenlyhippy Yeah, and again, no. Even in direct proportion by percentage, us and african americans beat the rest, to show we are the best. But racists are only fun to poke sticks at. I will let you go on down your hate road and hope our roads do not converge again.

@JohnnyThorazine You obviously don't understand or you would not accuse me of hate when my life's goal was to be a missionary to Africa, like 2 generations before me. But I don't care to debate with someone so demeaning, I would rather go massage my black friend in the nursing home with ulcers all over her legs, for free, like I do weekly.

@Queenlyhippy "some of my best friends are...."...haha....I know you. I would rather you go do something else, too.

@JohnnyThorazine Need validation? My grampa's book is missionary pilot in Liberia on Amazon last I looked. It has my pictures in it. My grandmother has an orphanage there called the Susie Gunter orphanage. Besides that, some of my heroes are blacks like Ben Carson, Tommy Sotomayor, and others. Most of the singer's I like are black! Fact is , to tell the truth should only turn off idiots who are afraid of it. Consequently some of my best friends are black and very smart. But never mind, you apparently want to think that everyone who is a race realist must hate the other races. . . Or does that only apply for whites? Don't answer. Done here.

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I don't have a problem with my kids going to a trade/tech school after high school.

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I wanted to go to college and was even accepted at a prestigious private school. It was a laugh since there was no way I could afford this school (and this was a long time ago when college was more affordable). Through luck, and the GI bill I got to go to a university and majored in something I thought I could never use (European History). Luckily I minored in business which I was able to use. However, history has been a source of amazing knowledge and I continuously study it (WWI is my specialty) and it has been invaluable on this site. But that's just me.

My late partner had 2 sons. One got a full scholarship and went on to medical school and became a specialist and is now a well paid doctor. The other son couldn't be bothered with college and got his associates degree just to please his mother. BUT, he has a remarkable talent for computers and has been sent around the world as a consultant. He brags about his low college degree and the fact he makes almost as much money as his older brother (they both compete as to who can get the best Audi).

Another complex answer to a simple idea. One thing is for sure this country lags other countries in the emphasis on tech. schools.

I love history too. I actually went back to school to take history as well as psychology and other things useless to most people or careers. It made me smarter and able to make more intelligent conversations with my clients though, so it wasn't a waste. . . But it didn't get me any more jobs either.

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I'm pro education if one has a solid idea what they want to do and a plan to get there. Going into debt for a degree seems like a bad idea.

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Not all children have the aptitude to handle college. It would be best to take your child to a counselor and see if that's what they really want to do. Grades have a lot to do with it. Attitude plays another part of it. My son spent 6 months talking about it and getting pats on the back and being the center of attention and the last minute changed his mind. Pissed me off. He's making a good go of being a mechanic. My oldest daughter has 2 degrees and teaches school. I personally had the determination to learn as many trades I could. Get nationally certified and carry my cards. I (had) belonged to 2 unions. Welders then machinist.

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I see too many people saddle with college loans not being able to get good paying work due to the courses or degrees they have. If pursuing a college degree you need to check the hiring rates and pay scales of your intended profession. After a year and a half at a junior college I opted out for trade school as I have one of those 'mechanical minds, glad I did. Now retired with a good pension plus SSI at a high rate and an IRA. A lot of trades are very high paying.

In my experience dealing with rich people who can buy massages, All the doctors and lawyers don't even have time to get massages and are often still paying off debt, Where is those who do trades are making good money, debt free and have more time.

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Depends on the person and the outcome. Glad you mentioned non-traditional routes to professional education. A four year degree isn't a "One size fits all" solution but that's the way it is sold to the population. We would do better looking at it from an outcome perspective (What do you want to DO?) mated to centuries of already available metrics and information publicly available from the DoL and state labor departments. Zero offense intended but we don't need a generation of massage therapists, forensic techs, and nurse's aides, but here we are, churning them out anyway. We cling to the falsehood of "What do you want to BE?" An individual isn't their occupation; this mistake hinders scores of people when they are retired or become disabled, and many end their lives needlessly depressed when they realize they bought into a con and can't get their time,energy or effort back. It's heartbreaking. Sorry, was a career counselor for the state UC office in a very economically depressed area that was allergic to common sense. Hits close to home.

If it wasn't such a depressing and disconnected world, we wouldn't even need so many jobs that bring human contact back to us, like being a massage therapist. No offense taken but that is my job.

@Queenlyhippy I completely agree, and you should be justly proud in what you love to do. My point has more to do with the cattle-call like recruitment cycles that often focus on one occupational position, and wind up ignoring individual need at the expense of student volume. Many people wind up riding from occupational cycle to cycle, but never get the chance to find out what would work from them. You make a great point about depression, contact and wellness, but we ignore it in career development which seems counter-productive. And as you imply, both are common and not healthy in the population. Thank you for the response!

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It depends what you get in to.

Go into Finance or Engineering.

But trades are always needed.

There are master plumbers out there that can clear 100k a year. I know an elevator tech that make 125k a year after 20 years in the trade.

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