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When friends ask for thoughts & prayers I always reply sending love & support. I'm looking for other things to say.

secain54 2 Oct 28
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"Love and light" over "thoughts and prayers" any day.

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Sending love and keeping you in my thoughts

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I say something like "sending good thoughts" or "good juju," or "Best wishes for ____"--eg, health, healing, relief, comfort, etc. Depending on the situation, might also be, "Best of luck and skill [or whatever other quality could be useful] in dealing with ____."

I like the "good juju" comment because it frames the matter in terms I am most comfortable with: probably superstition, with the possibility that there's (cue Arthur C. Clarke) a technology there, as yet indistinguishable from magic.

I have no opinion on whether there's anything to the notion of this kind of (now, cue Einstein) "spooky action at a distance." But I do think that my mental imagery and self-talk can affect me and how I deal with someone else's issues and my own, especially related ones. It's rather like bowing to a statue of the Buddha (which I don't do, but might in the future): it's not about worshiping Gautama; it's about acknowledging and revering Buddha-like characteristics, such as compassion, in oneself.

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I always say sending good wishes or happy thoughts

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If you are nearby: Concrete suggestions, like helping with the kids and/ or pets, or taking them for awhile. Running an errand, or shopping, cooking, cleaning, doing laundry. So much more useful than words!
If far away: i like "love and support"....if it ain't broke, don't fix it!

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I tell them what they want to hear. Makes life easy for both sides.

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‘You (and your family, spouse, etc.) are in my thoughts’ or ‘I’m thinking about you and wishing you well (speedy recovery, etc..)’

Those are my two standards.

ocrab Level 4 Oct 28, 2018
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I just say “I will keep you in my thoughts, is there anything I can do to help you? Anything I can do for you?”

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I have a pacemaker, and I am in a couple of pacemaker groups on FB. When people ask for prayers I usually reply by saying I will pray to Enumclaw. He is the Native american god of lightning, and by extension all things electrical including pacemakers.

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I usually say, 'sending good vibes your way '

or ...Peace,Light and Healing Vibes coming your way from here !!

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