I have learned to stop totally right now. my life is on hold for 6 months pretty much. No , now work, only savings for basics (food, home, bills, ) cannot drive, and can barely walk. FUN! If you ever have to have major surgery, DONT, just die and get it over with because its totally boring.(joke) But look at how my computer skills are improving! But i do get alot of time to just sit and stop and reflect on how the NOW can just last and last and last and...............

there is no now. by the time you've acknowledged it, it's gone. in addition, there are consequences to all our actions, large and small; not taking the future (which briefly becomes the now) into consideration can be disastrous.

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