You start to rot and people have to figure out how to deal with your absence in their lives and what to do with the body and how to get along without your emotional and/or financial support.

Death Cafes are just a way of openly discussing the practical matters related to that, and perhaps at least incidentally processing and integrating the reality of your own mortality, rather than avoiding it.

And i would spend one precious Second of my Life worrying about this because.....?

You may quote me: When I die I stop being. That's it. Game over. It was a good run.

I've been to a couple (one of which I was involved in organising.) They've both been very positive events, which those attending seem to have appreciated and got a lot from

They give your hospital bed to someone else