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This year's holiday is going to be, I hope, the best one ever, and I'm just TOO excited!

Without going into a long and detailed story, our home has been graced with the presence of one very amazing young man.
This young man, has been in and out of foster care and group homes (a.k.a. orphanages), since the age of 4. He's never really known what a nice birthday was (which we celebrated on his special day in mid-August; thick chocolate cake with candles, to top it off), he never really had a home made turkey dinner (such as the one my daughter and I are making tomorrow), or even a winter solstice celebration (I'm happy to call it Christmas, for his sake).
Many foster children, don't make it out of the system without feeling resentment, fear, anger, and a deep void that they can't seem to fill. Some have such anger, that they don't know what to do with - they have no where to put it! This young man turned out so differently; he had his bad youth times, but hurt people tend to hurt others and he didn't want to be that way. He's got a beautiful soul.

He came into our home early August and I'd soon learned that just 3 weeks prior, he'd been sleeping in the local park, near where he worked, just so he wouldn't be late, each day, for work...homeless.
He's been with my daughter and I ever since, and I'm very much hoping that he will continue to call this his home.
Although he's a bit too old for me to adopt, now, (and it's not unheard of, in articles that I've read) but if he ever asked us to be his permanent family, I'd be wasting NO time, at all, getting the paperwork in order.

I have 3 daughters, and unfortunately (for whatever reason), my body simply wouldn't carry a male child. I lost 2 sons, during the 2nd trimesters of each pregnancy, in my early years. It did break my heart into shards, and I wouldn't trade my daughters for anything in this world...I feel strongly that somehow, some way, our paths crossed so that he'd finally have a home and a family and I could finally have a son.

Twisted185 6 Nov 22
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You are an amazing human being, and your family is wonderful. Happy Thanksgiving!

JimG Level 8 Nov 22, 2018

Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family, as well, sir!! May 2019 be better for all of us!

@Twisted185 thank you.

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You kick ass. Proof that one doesn't have to be ruled over by an imaginary sky tyrant in order to be a good person.

Pffffttt...with all the pro-lifers in this country (gag), not a single one of them have probably thought about getting themselves down to a group home to adopt one (or several) of the millions of children, in our own country, that have been shoved around, displaced, and abused in so many of the foster homes. It pisses me off that so many foster parents only see a "meal ticket" in these children.
This young man may be 22 years old, and he may not have had ANY kind of a normal childhood, but he'll always have a home for as long as he wants/needs it.

I've always told my own children, that I didn't care how old they got, my door would always be opened...and if they stay with me for the rest of my life, I'm perfectly happy with that. This world is cruel and I want all of these kids to know that they'll always have a place to come to feel safe, to feel loved, to fill their bellies. I believe that this is the role of a "Mother".

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