Yay! (saw your update) -- glad they got in okay. Everything will be alright.

You don't know me, and I usually don't presume to give advice, so if you ignore this whole post, that's fine with me. For the problem of too many things: fit what you can in your apartment, sell, toss, or donate what is expendable and replaceable, rent a storage unit for the rest. The kitties will adjust once things are more stable. So will your daughter and so will you. Uncertainty causes anxiety, but when you establish a routine, things get a little more predictable. Good things come slowly, remember that. There are lots of things that will not go your way, but you can always be persistent. Hang in there, mom, your girl and her kitties are depending on you. All the best to all of you, things will get better.

Take things moment by moment. I found it's a lot easier on the nerves if you don't worry about things you really can't control. Life hands us all manner of crap sometimes, but if we take things as they come and deal with the issues one by one it is a little easier. I hope your daughter and the kitties will arrive safely as that is the most important thing right now. As you said, take one day at a time.....