I was told today that the reason why I didn't want a bully in my life is because I am delusional, paranoid, and hang on to the past.
This makes me sad not because it's true (which by the way it isn't), but because since I have a diagnosed mental illness, they believe I should allow ANYONE to treat me any way they please.
I can't do it any more.
It wouldn't be that bad if this person actually took responsibility for what they did, but as far as they are concerned, they are never wrong. I'm suppose to do exactly as told when told, and to never question why. When I do push back, they hang up and refuse to speak to me for months, and when THEY believe that I've "come to my senses" (in other words see the light and the error of my ways), they will contact me, and act as if nothing has happened.
The bottom line is, I have a mental illness. Just because I have said mental illness does NOT mean people that supposedly love me can shit on me. I'm 60 years old; too old to continue this song and dance. I would rather have them out of my life than to continue this toxic, one sided relationship.
Oh, and for those who believe that family is everything; the person doing this is my sister. She has terrorized, bullied, and blackmailed me since I was a child. So don't tell me I should play nice and let it go. I've been doing that for almost 60 years. Enough is enough.