Victim mentally only is that, because no one validates the other persons feelings. If a person treats someone like shit, and they don't man up, well then there is no resolution. So the other person feels like they have been wronged, and because the other person won't accept their faults and failures in things. Sure, the wronged Person has to take responsibility for themselves, but if they have no resolution or justice for the wrong done with them, they cannot get past victim mentality. So they never move on.
Want there to be less victims? Seek proper justice or do right and man up when you do wrong to others. Even if you think you didn't do wrong. Stepping up gives closure and resolution. Otherwise, don't complain about victim mentality here on the internet.
Locked in a room with a Texan?
As long as we're makin' chili!
he even spells "chili"...
@Skeezwazzle I learnt from a Texan friend
@Envixer Nice attention to detail-
You must first be realistic about your capabilities, wishful thinking don't give competence to you.
@Mortal he can do it because he knows a lot of people will double down on him because they have a lot to loose if he fail. In some sense, this is competence, he has so many people that will loose if he fails that they will put any effort in making his crazy ideas go ok.