Depends on the someone. I've had relationships that lasted years that started on one wild night. Some women need more time to feel comfortable, which is more than understandable.

It really starts that first moment you are that certain kind of comfy. Everything from that point on is really just foreplay.

Whenever you feel ready.And if other people judge you for being a"slut"well it's none of their business anyway- they're probably just jealous.

I don't mind being a slut.

I ask when the last STD test they had was and if they haven’t had one recently then I will wait until they get one.

I also imagine if I get pregnant would I want this person in my life with a vote on child rearing? Also if I should die in childbirth could he raise the kid?

I also tell them that I won’t have an abortion if I get pregnant because I want kids and feel I could support one if I needed.

Because of the fatherhood consideration (which is not the same as husband consideration ) I basically only have sex after I have gotten to know the person pretty well. I don’t do casual sex because no birth control is 100% effective.

15 minutes

I'm gonna say about ten minutes. After that you can get on with the important stuff like learning each others names, where you want to have dinner,etc.

When it feels right.

I don't consider myself a slut for having sex on a first date and nor would I think the same of anyone else.

If it feels good - do it! Just keep yourself safe.

I would not put a time on it,
depends on the people.

Rubbish, we are all adults and people will talk about you whatever you do. id say when you both feel like it, after all, it could be a quick fuck with a stranger full of lust or the beginning of a long-term thing. I still think you should get it on when you both feel like it. never turn down an opportunity for fun and pleasure.

My firest relationship, we were both virgins, and we waited until we were engaged before having sex. Looking back, that was a mistake. In my next relationship, we had sex the first night we met, and although we're not in a romantic relationship anymore, he's my best friend and we've been inseparable for 16 years. So it depends on both of you. I don't regret sleeping with my best friend that first night, but I do regret waiting so long with my ex-husband. What I thought was 'twu wuv' was probably just pent up lust.

Then he's a man who're too if you do it soon. I call b.s. on that. If you are attracted that way then go for it! I don't think its wrong to wait either but I know right away if I want to screw a guy or not. But I have self esteem issues too thanks to my ex. I can't remember the last time I had sex with someone. I'm a virgin again! Lol!

If you're dating anyone but me at least two months. Otherwise, sex on or before the first date is perfectly acceptable.

Okay real answer: That's for you to decide based on your priorities and not on who may think what. I think that as an adult you have every right to do as you choose as long as it harms no one else, and absolutely no reason to justify your decision.

As soon as you want to, and have established their trustworthiness--as someone who is telling the truth when they say they have no STIs and won't wind up stalking you or whatever. Could be first date. Could be never. Who cares?

If you buy into the labels, you place importance on what society and culture want you to be. They want control. If you have sex with someone on the first date, do YOU believe you are a slut? If so, you might want to look at the why of it.

Other people's opinions do not matter to healthy people who accept and love themselves.

If it feels right, go for it.

whenever it feels right for the two people. don't worry about what other's think. Be honest with yourself and especially be honest with the other person.

Whenever the planets align, sometimes they already are.