The first step to change is resetting your expectations.
I don't hold anyone to any expectations. It's easier to accept someone and it makes it just as easy for them to be their true self.
I know who I am and what I've accomplished. I'm content with that.
Shoot, my expectations were reset to a bottom level when I almost died of cancer while escaping Thailand four months ago. Now I'm thrilled when when I reach such milestones as taking a short walk, or walking into the hospital for an appointment without having to use a wheelchair.
what a useless bit of advice, offers no advice whatsoever
Set your expectations low enough and you'll never be disappointed.