A tough topic. I understand the intent but it us still a control over people I don't like.

My son had a purity ring when he lived with his mother and attended an extreme church. Later when he was living with me, I saw him absent-mindedly playing with a rectangular piece of metal. I asked what that was, and he showed me his flattened ring.

He said it was accidentally crushed, but it was perfectly aligned, and it was crushed shortly before he moved in with the woman who is now my DIL. Accident; my ass. That "accident" made me so proud.