So it would appear that if I'm looking for the woman of my dreams, I can look almost anywhere, but if I'm looking for the man of my dreams, I'm going to have to move to either Kansas or Canada. Why is that? Do men looking for men just not use sites like this? Luckily for me, I do not limit my relationships to just one gender, so a dearth of men seeking men is not the end of the world. Also luckily for me, I am not desperately seeking anyone, so if all I wind up doing here is chitty-chatting, that's just fine. I'm just curious where men seeking male companionship go.