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My recent blocks include . . .

  1. A man who fat shamed me.
  2. A man who insulted my integrity because I was not able to communicate at the exact times he requested.
  3. A man who fell in love with me after a weekend and accused me of being a narcissist for not feeling the same way.
  4. A man who declared his deep love and devotion after several weeks then ended the relationship after discovering he had no time for me in his life.

These are just the highlights.

On the positive side, I've made two wonderful friends.

To my fellow single hopefuls . . . I feel for you! I wish you the best and wish to remind you that love and self-respect are the best gifts you can give yourselves.

ElusiveMoby 7 May 8
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You can't win them all, but so long as you win a few you are ahead in the game

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Every time I think about changing my status, I am brought back to my senses by memories of similar experiences. Don't need that in my life. Can't let people's unrealistic expectations bother me, nor the silly idea of someone falling in love with me without fully knowing me. Self respect and self care are better companions, for me anyway.

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All in all, they sound deserving of their blocks. The latter two were probably scammers anyway.
Just keep moving and do things that bring you joy.

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It always fascinates me how a man can be madly in love after exchanging a handful of back and forth messages. Either he's desperate AF or dishonest. Either way, I'm not interested.

Deb57 Level 8 May 9, 2019
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You have your reasons and I absolutely respect that, especially when people are being creeps and liars.

However, blocks have absolutely sapped my enjoyment of this site. It feels like you can't disagree with someone without having them deem you unworthy of their time because they hold a different opinion. It sucks and it's so goddamn narcissistic.

Like I used to post every day. Now I've toyed with just deactivating my account. I'm an open book, let's talk about whatever, let's disagree on whatever. It just feels like we keep isolating ourselves. What's the point in this place if we're just here to reinforce a bubble?

My apologies, I'm not trying to hijack your thread.

Highjacking is most definitely allowed in threads.

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Gosh! Do you think if I changed my profile to 'interested in meeting women', all sorts of strange females would start messaging me?

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Were they all from this site?

Yes.

@ElusiveMoby Did you actually meet any of these people?

@RayEtherton I met one.

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How do you know if you get blocked? Is it painful?
Can it be reversed

@Tooreen

I believe she is talking about people she blocked.

@LiterateHiker They most likely don't care, but my first question was genuine

The first indication is warts on the kneecaps

Like a vasectomy.

@ElusiveMoby precisely

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What you just wrote is so nice and well said. I think I just fell in love with you!...

Will you get down on one knee?

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I'm proud not to be included in your First Four. Squeaked by.

Just barely. JK.

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I'm almost afraid to reply to this. 😁

1of5 Level 8 May 8, 2019
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That's what blocks are for..

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That's life eh...

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