If you think saying stupid, flirty, suggestive bullshit to women is "funny", it's NOT.
Most of us don't appreciate it. We don't think it's "cute", it isn't "intriguing", and it's not fucking "endearing".
Just fucking STOP.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.I have done quite well with it my entire adult life, but you do have to know how to do it. It is like with good song writers, it can't be taught. You either have it or you don't. Even on here I have used it. If you pay attention to what women post or reply to, you can pick out the women who enjoy it, and are just as good at playing the game. When handled right, it is fun. It is about being more mischievous and playful like, as opposed to sounding dirty or salacious. 
Sticks48
Level 9
May 24, 2019
1
That's fine for you. However, there aren't many men who are as "artful".
As I said, most of us don't appreciate it. Particularly as an opener.
I think in theory it is probably best to treat women as intelligent human beings and discuss things with them as such. Being a bit autistic, it was aways the only way for me to interact instead of an option. But I can't deny that flirting as basic interaction has been the way for decades if not generations or the whole history of men and women. My guess is that it has always been the common denominator and incorporates the integral sexual element of male-female interaction. It is social interaction and it pushes the envelope towards sexual as well. What will unintelligent men and women do to find partners if they can't interact at their own level? I think the problem has more to do with intelligent people getting annoyed with unintelligent people trying to connect with them.
brentan
Level 8
May 24, 2019
1
Hint: If you would get fired or beat up when you said it to a man, Do Not say it to Anybody!
AnneWimsey
Level 9
May 24, 2019
4
Right?!!
I met some girls that like it 
ownworstenemy
Level 7
May 24, 2019
0
No you didn't, they were laughing At you behind your back, you fool
@AnneWimsey interesting, butt not valid.
@ownworstenemy ROFLMAO....."not valid"
The day anyone can accuse me of being less than a gentleman, will be the day I pack it all in. Until then, I will confine my attentions where I've already been told they're welcome.
Paul4747
Level 8
May 24, 2019
4
Didn't direct that at you, did I?
@Paul4747 It was a general "you". If I am directing anything like this at anyone specific, I would handle that in a private message. Or, if that wasn't
sufficient to deal with the situation, I'd definitely out them in the public forum.
I find it interesting how many men were quick to jump to "I don't do that".
There's no reason to be defensive.
If you are a man who doesn't behave that way, there's no reason to announce that you don't. We already know you don't.
@KKGator I guess some men, especially these days, feel like we're lumped in as a fungible group who all behave the same; sometimes some of us go on a preemptive defense.
Women of my acquaintance have told me of the same feeling; "because I'm a woman, it's assumed I feel and act a certain way."
Yesterday I received this weird message:
"Hi
you are a a interesting beautiful woman, way outside the ordinary.
Perhaps we could become friends - you could tell about Simon and Garfunkel, your favourite classical compositions and more - anything else you wish to share - and ask whatever of me.
I don't expect I shall ever receive the pleasure of your amazing blow job - but just maybe we can blow each others minds."
What did he expect? "You had me at 'blow job'?
Silence is what he got.
LiterateHiker
Level 9
May 24, 2019
6
That’s just a ridiculous message Perhaps it would be appropriate if one’s profile describes one’s oral prowess, which occurs on sites for escorts. That’s where he should be browsing...
He's a asshole block
I thought it was thoughtful and that he must have paid attention to your posts to know specific details like that...it was not an outright request for a sexual act but an acknowledgment that he respected your skill and even know about it...how do we put information out there and then expect men to know whether it is flirting, innuendo, etc. ? I give him at least a B at least.
I think its an adolescent boy thing. Some males seem to stay in an adolescent mindset long after they're supposed to have outgrown it. (Poorly developed frontal brain lobes). That's what all that junk food, and faux beer will do to you!
davknight
Level 8
May 24, 2019
4
really? and if it comes from a woman doing the same thing is it her period or hot flashes?
Ok
bobwjr
Level 10
May 24, 2019
2
I go by the woman preference never vulgar or nasty
@bobwjr You do indeed...a class act...
@thinktwice thank you
I hope you are not intending to speak for all women...
I am an adult and can do my own policing, thank you...If I have a problem, I will say something on my own behalf...
You have made your position known, and I hope everyone will respect that so you, too, can have the experience you want without infringing on that of others.
thinktwice
Level 8
May 24, 2019
5
Really?
Did you miss the part where I specifically said, "MOST women"?????
I wasn't speaking for everyone.
@KKGator just reaffirming...thanks
If a Man has any worth,he will seldom curse at a Woman or use filthy language,manners are seldom seen or heard anymore,a reflection on the lack of home values,or is it done to attract attention?
Mike1947
Level 7
May 24, 2019
2
I really don't know.
All my life, boys and men have said and done stupid things in an effort to attract me, and others.
When I was young, sometimes I fell for it, and lived to regret it.
Now, I have zero tolerance. I have no interest in "being nice" anymore.
I have no problem making anyone who speaks to me in anything but a respectful manner feel as small and inconsequential as possible.
I will publicly embarrass them if that's the venue they choose.
I don't care anymore.
@KKGator As you should based on your preferences...that is what I admire about you...
@KKGator absolutely!!! I'm almost 70 years old, still have men honk at me when walking down the street, stare at my chest, most of the people so far looking at my profile are men, despite the fact my profile clearly states im a lesbian. It's NOT flattering it's disturbing.
@Katsarecool Freakin' unbelievable, ain't it? It kills me that it does not matter to so many men, and they think it's perfectly acceptable that they can say anything to us. Or reach out and grab a handful of whatever they please.
@KKGator absolutely right! I'm waiting for the day when I can walk around unmolested and stared at. I thought at puberty I would be safe. I've had men flirt with me young enough to be my grandson!!!
@Bobby9 I don't really give a shit about your "illustrations". I will make any kind of statement I fucking please.
If you don't like it, I don't care. If you feel it's necessary that you comment on it, don't be surprised when you get this response.
I stand by my statement.
It IS factual, whether you choose to accept that or not.
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