Wow, not so many chain smokers these days I guess -- but try finding a woman under 60 in this country who isn't covered in tattoos and gets more than tipsy to have a good time and you've got your work cut out.

I have always dated intelligent, well-educated, fit, athletic men with a great sense of humor who treat me with love, respect and kindness.

I'm dating a kind medical doctor who is hilarious, intelligent, fit and an extraordinary lover. Lucky me.

Never liked "bad boys."

Turn offs

No sense of humor, uneducated, or poor conversational skills. Withdrawn or depressed. It is boring to provide all of the conversation and humor.

Wants me to rescue him. "You can whip me into shape." "You can make get off the couch and exercise." "You can make me happy."

Tries to convert me to Christianity.

Men who never learned to cook. I met a dozen middle-age man-children who want a mommy to take care of them and great sex. Everyone loves the magic words, "Dinner is served."

Argumentative, fat, out-of-shape, ignorant, sedentary, lying, mean, disrespectful.

Lazy, selfish lovers.

Lacks empathy for others. Does not care about climate change or protecting the environment. Conservative Republican, sexist, racist, bigot, etc.

Smoking, alcoholic, stoner, poor personal or dental hygiene, bad teeth, missing and/or rotten teeth, long hair or covered in tattoos.