Mmmmm. If they cry hard enough I can still kind of taste theirs!

I saw your photos...you look like a kind happy person. Why stress over enemies? @CarolinaGirl60

@nicknotes Despite my rant below: I don’t. It’s a JOKE. I really don’t have enemies. I’m an INFJ...toxic people get a certain amount a slack. Some get a lot, but once I’m done, that’s it. INFJ’s do a thing called the door slam, cutting emotional and at times, physical ties with toxic people. I e gone no contact with narcissistic people too.

Yes...take care of your mental health by avoiding stress...Be Happy..@CarolinaGirl60

@CarolinaGirl60 I looked up INFJ....very interesting...less than 1% of the population....

You haven’t MET my enemies, have you?! Compassion is what gets me in trouble. If I followed the Jack Reacher rule and got my retaliation in first, my life would have been so much easier.

@CarolinaGirl60 The worse the enemy the greater chance to show compassion and forgiveness. I don't have to meet your enemies to know that. namaste

@JeffMesser Bless your heart. There’s always that ONE person commenting on a joke^^^^^

Sigh.

Being serious: If it gives you peace, fanfuckingtastic. it brings me no peace. Some things don’t deserve my forgiveness, and I feel bullied when folks try to tell me they know better than ME what works for me in my life. You don’t know how I feel, what I’ve survived, who I’ve survived, or how I tried compassion and forgiveness. Compassion was treated as weakness, and forgiveness as permission to keep hurting me. I can’t drink their tears because I cut them out of my life years ago.
I suppose that’s compassion. For myself.

Dammit. I was tryna be funny and now I’m aggravated. Positive police and positivity bullies: please block me. Not sure if you are? Example: something bad happens. Rainbows are falling out all your orifices. Yup. You’re one. Bye!

@CarolinaGirl60 not positivity police at all. Ive been to the bottom of my barrel completely and forgiveness was the only way to navigate it. there's no forgiving someone for raping your toddler daughter - especially when it's family. there's no forgiving someone for getting your father charged and thrown in jail for their meth lab. but I had to find compassion and forgive or else I would have eaten a bullet. and I was there trust me. many paths but one destination. namaste.