I just found out that my oldest son's wife left him. Took the girls, moved out. I assume it was another of his extramarital affairs, or perhaps his lack of anger management.
I haven't seen or spoken to any of them in four years. Still, I'm wondering how he's going to make this all my fault. I'm glad he doesn't have my phone number to rage at me.
She turned him against me. He declared me dead. The girls don't know their grandmother.
I'm kind of giddy-sad, if that makes any sense.
Glad that I am done with my family once the funeral day is over next week. After that, there's really nothing left except attending a few funerals unless I decide to come visit my siblings or their spouses if they get gravely ill and only if they ask me to visit.
Sounds like a double dose of alienation....I am so sorry people rage and betray family love....in many states grandparents have visitation rights to small grandchildren pre teens usually .....teens can refuse visitation with any non custodial party ....if state social services are already involved make your wishes known to authorities...they may appoint special counsel for the children and preserve their equal rights to see their grandparents....of course the evil female birthing your grandchildren may resist your rights as she already poisoned your troubled son against you