Yes when the media promotes it in the movies

A friend once asked rhetorically "Where do nice guys finish?" to which my brother responded without missing a beat "Very often into a Kleenex."

I'm not exactly in any position--nor am I the sort of person--to give advice. However, I think the key is in our perspective. In other words, instead of being nice, what about 'interesting'?

Oh the eternal mystery of why "nice guys" finish last.
How about reverse it and we have our answer?
What about "when will the nice women come first?".
Are we entitled to whomever we wish simply on the assumption we're "nice"?
And.... are we really "nice"? What is nice to you(global) may not be to someone else.
/just saying...

Some women are attracted to that "alpha male" mentality. Very basic animal nature. Just like some men are only interested in physically attractive women. As civilized as advanced as we think we are, our animal instinct is powerful.

Nice guys that are actually nice maybe.

nice guys almost always win... we have the patience to wait and let karma do its thing

Nice guys always come in first because they don't get stuck with the slutz and the shitbags that they would get if they were the bad boys. what people don't realize is the nice guy will eventually find his true mate while all of the bad boys will just Bounce from whore to whore