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Hi. I am looking for a guy who wouldn't date me for almost 8 years, and cheats on me and says that it's not cheating because he's bisexual, and fucking men isn't cheating on me. I think that I deserve much more.

She_Guevara 2 Oct 20
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Sounds like abuse to me

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You deserve much more She_Guevara. I like what i see and read. I am looking for my best friend and a long term relationship. Look forward to hearing from you. Sincerely , Roley.

Roley Level 5 Oct 23, 2019
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Obviously not the right man for you.
Start find social groups to mingle with away from
this guy.
Remember everyone searches for happiness in may shapes and forms . But the most important is to create that happiness
within yourself.

Thank you, very true.

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Level 7

Deep breath.

Hi.....

Enjoy yourself. Meet some friends. Take your time.

Well, of course. Anyone who you meet needs to start as a friend before you date them. I know these things already.

This is not the only dating site that I have ever tried, or the only one that I am using now.

I grew up before online dating existed, and I greatly prefer the other, older way. But you don't know me. You don't know that I was cheated on so that's why I am trying something else, and you also don't know that I am going to community college while working. Finally, you don't know that this makes meeting new people hard, very hard. What do you think I should do, stay with someone who is cheating on me, then?

@She_Guevara

I do know a little more about you than I did before you opened up.

Keep it up. Work beyond your hurt, struggles, pain.

There is something out there, you just need to be able to see it. Putting the past behind you is a solid place to start.

@She_Guevara really defensive there... don't think he was trying to discourage you.... but I think you need to work through the issues from your ex? current bf? before pursuing something new immediately because you WILL bring that baggage into your new relationships.... but you probably already knew that 😉

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