Ya know, getting ghosted by the first attractive woman you've seen on an online dating service who actually lives in town.....kinda blows.
Just a bit.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.I kinda know what you mean.... I finally find a non-believer MOC on the interracial site and he messages me and then disappears forever.... perhaps my taste in music was a dealbreaker idk XD because he asked me about my favourite music in his message XD
demifeministgal
Level 8
Nov 23, 2019
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Wow. Ouch. Yeah, I may cash it in on the online dating site for a bit and focus on my hobby, see if I can make any money off of it. It happened again today. Girl sends me a friend request on a social site, she looks legit, I say hi.....and she blocks me. Humans are too weird a species these days, even for me.
@JayOleck38 WTF is that about? why would she even do that?! Unless it was a fake account and not a real she? people are so dumb sometimes XD
@demifeministgal I have absolutely no idea. It definitely wasn't a fake account. There are probably just a whole lot of crazy people on sites like that. And I seem to attract the bulk of them. Hell, last date I was on was the daughter of a friend of mine. She asked me to cook her dinner, which I did....and it's on that evening she says she's still in love with her ex.
Like Neo in the Matrix, I attract bullets and just keep dodgin'.
You think she lives in town.......I have "met" a whole bunch of scammers that when I mention local places or happenings, it immediately becomes obvious they haven't a clue......
AnneWimsey
Level 9
Nov 22, 2019
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Fair point, but I never got to mention any local places or happenings. Mostly it was just about our dogs.
While inconsiderate, just remember they don't owe you anything and vice versa.
lerlo
Level 8
Nov 22, 2019
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Oh, I know. I would prefer that they just don't respond to begin with rather than engaging and then just going silent. I don't think it's leading me on or anything (although that too has happened.)
@JayOleck38 well if she was attractive you know how many tens or hundreds of responses she's getting so you just have to expect that she's going to keep dating until she finds one she really likes
@lerlo Well, likely not, actually. At least not in my town. Single men or women in their thirties are fairly rare here. Port Townsend is mostly either elderly or a place for couples to raise families. Pretty much the same deal with the surrounding communities until you get closer to Seattle. Likely as not, she just wasn't interested. Sucks, but as the song says, I will survive. And who knows? Maybe we'll run into each other in real life and get acquainted....but I'm not counting on that.
Yeah. I’ve been ghosted by a few attractive women. On the bright side, I just got home from my second date with a nice, attractive woman. I’m optimistic...
Bobbyzen
Level 8
Nov 21, 2019
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I wish you happiness. I, too, remain optimistic even though I think moving to a bigger town would definitely widen my options. Someday.....
Don't worry. There will be more attractive women that will ghost you. In time you won't even care.
BitFlipper
Level 8
Nov 21, 2019
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Deal with it many of us had to
bobwjr
Level 10
Nov 21, 2019
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Oh, I intend to.
@JayOleck38 don't worry the good ones are out there
@bobwjr I remain confident there are. I;m like one of those balloons that keep popping back up no matter how many times you punch them :
@JayOleck38 that's the idea
Laugh it off.
After a bad first date, my friend Amy and I called each other. Laughing, we flushed our toilets in unison, imagining him swirling down the drain.
LiterateHiker
Level 9
Nov 21, 2019
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I intend to distract myself with my awesome job and Disney films.
Far better than getting blocked by the first THREE I contacted. All were 98%+ matches (according to the dating site)...
Some people don't seem to have a sense of humor.
moosepucky
Level 7
Nov 21, 2019
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Online dating is a tricky, tricky world.
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