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Would love to have a intimate date before I die. Older guy who wants to cuddle with no strings attach. Been considering a sex doll. Live in a rural area of SD. Meeting women is tough at this age.

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BruceBrittain 3 Apr 20
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Men who want sex with no strings attached are a dime a dozen. You basically want a no-holds-barred humpfest and go about your day afterwards without needing to check on your partner. Typical problems:

  1. Developing feelings. This is the most common risk of being in a f-ck buddy setup. Someone inevitably feels hurt and/or used.

  2. Losing self-respect and self-esteem.

  3. Losing respect for your partner. Without being able to share meaningful conversations and do activities apart from sex with your partner, your relationship lacks depth and significance.

  4. Contracting an STD.

Strings are fine. But what do I have to do to get a woman to NOTICE me?

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I had some cuddling last year, and it was more satisfying than sex. And it lasted longer. On several occasions. Admittedly, it's been 18 years since I had sex. But I would enthusiastically forego sex in exchange for regular cuddling with that woman. It was one of the nicest experiences I've ever had.

Sex isn't on the table with me. Wiull take care of her but don't epect it returned.

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Sounds like you're seeking far more than a "cuddle". May you find one !

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FWB, baby! I have had control of the tv remote too long, but I ain't dead, either!
You will probably have to consider meeting halfway, but think of the anticipation!

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If all you want is sex with no strings attached, you can hire somebody for that. Seems like that would be the easiest kind of problem to solve. The hard part is finding someone one can trust, respect, and tolerate for an actual relationship at this age.

Deb57 Level 8 Apr 21, 2020
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Nope, it's NOT the entirely the age. I'm 70, live in the country and I still connect with willing and attractive age-appropriate women seeking more than a quick cuddle in the hay. And I'm mighty selective. You might have to make some changes and be willing to drive a bit. Quote from a movie, "Nobody knows what's wrong with themselves... and everyone else can see it right away". Lots to think about there, for all of us.

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Hang in there, the older you get the better your chances 😃 women:men at 80 is 10:8 while at 85 it's 10:4, more than 2 women for every bloke. Women live longer so the odds get better. Men in nursing homes are in very great demand. That's something that really upsets the godbotherer run nursing homes. The oldies go bed hopping

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Hang in there, man. My father, at 82 years old, met a wonderful woman and has been dating her for about 18 months — with a couple of overnights each week. I agree it's harder to meet women as we get older, but I think the key is to get out and do things, have interests, stay busy. If you find ways to mingle — volunteer work, classes, interest groups, activism, whatever — you increase your chances greatly for meeting someone great and clicking with her. Best of luck to you.

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