Things have definitely gotten weirder. My fantasy has taken a turn for much more kinky thinking. Sadly, or maybe fortunately I’ve been on a lonely stretch. I just fuck up relationships anyway.

Up until about 8 yrs ago I wasn't very self aware of my sexuality (that's also about the time I started questioning many things, including my belief in God). Don't get me wrong I had sex but wasn't all that aware of my body and what I wanted. The first 18 yrs of a 28 yr marriage I thought we had good sex but it was very predictable. The last 10 yrs, basically non-existent. A year or so after we split I started dating and wow, something woke up (mind you, I was in my early sixties!). I started to discover my sexuality. I dated a couple years but wasn't satisfied with just the physical and wanted more from a potential partner, other than sex. And that's been my quest along with my learning more about, myself and being a non-believer. So at this point I'm very interested in mature sex and curious to experiment.

Nothing has changed for me.

Almost.....No..... The Willing

I still have needs. I prefer mature and adventurous rather than kinky.

I am very highly sexed still and still fancy the same woman I always fancied.

One study found that compared to younger or older women, women between the ages of 27 and 45 reported more frequent and vivid sexual fantasies. Additionally, they engaged in more sex and were more inclined to do so earlier in a relationship. For men this comes way earlier, and ends earlier as well. That's only some average results, though, but it can be very different from one man/woman to another. This desire can also be extended by using some viagra from sterkereu.com for example, it's very popular amongst older men.

Well at 85 years old my sexual appetite is harly urgent any more and is limited to Lewd & Lacivious Thoughts.

I find that I enjoy going slow and enjoy the feelings and like to give more back. Some times it is just to please my partner or date. I do not play around as I am afraid of STDs so I go slow in this area.

I tend to have a 'slower burn' as I've got older, more seeking quality rather than quantity. I've also become more explorative especially by becoming more accepting of my sexuality. Part of that is also being more open to more interesting sensual options.

As I went through my 60s and now into my 70s, I have found that I am more attracted to women in my age group than to younger women....and I am more excited about the prospect of having sensual experiences with them as well. But, as in any relationship, I think it is important for both people to give reassurances that they find their partner attractive, desirable, and exciting. This can be done in hundreds of ways...words...touches...use your imagination...out of the blue is great. Freedom and spontaneity are the key. When my inner fire feels like it is dwindling, it usually just needs someone to blow on it a little. No pun intended.....