My husband taught me that no one is all right or all wrong. My daddy taught me you can catch a lot more flies with honey than vinegar. I was never able to overcome my mother's racism or need to feel better than other people but she loved me despite my vocal opposition to her beliefs. I felt I accomplished the most by making fun of her in that area.

THIS is how you change both hearts and minds, but you have to be willing to have those difficult conversations. Unfortunately, efective communication seems to be a fading skillset in our country.