I don't have much patience when dealing with people who I think don't want to help themselves. Whether they are sick or there are problems in their lives. I try to help but there are limits.
I definitely agree with you. I am happy to help people that are truly struggling and need it, but everyone has to try for themselves first. When someone expects people to wait on them or believe the world owes them, that is learned helplessness, not a trait I want to encourage.