Hi, so I had a sad day. My sisters and I decided to take our mom off of all of her meds today. She was on a blood clot medicine and without that she will most likely have a stroke. It's really a bittersweet day but she is just out of control at the nursing home trying to escape all the time it's just never ending. The doctor agreed we were doing the right thing even though it's a very difficult decision to make. We have to keep reminding ourselves that we're doing it out of love because she's not living a quality life. It's really very sad.
Sometimes the kindest thing is the hardest at the time.
This is when I become an advocate for drugs like marijuana, mushrooms, LSD, DMT... These are all drugs that should be used when someone is making that transition from life to death. Or just used for fun recreationally if one is being responsible.
Good morning baby girl. I hope today is a better day for you. I guess I will start by telling you about my baby boy Jacob. I grew up in Franklin, NC, but I spent most of my adult life in CA-- mostly in San Francisco. I came home 13 years ago and met his mother at a club. I went home with her and we kicked it for a couple of weeks. I didn't know her AT ALL. The more I got to know her, the less I liked her. She told me she was pregnant. I demanded DNA testing. It came back 99.997 per cent. To my credit, I have been a very dutiful father to Jacob for his entire life. Although I really don't like his Mom as a person, we have learned how to co parent. I LOVE MY JACOB!
And THIS is when I wish people could be as lucky as any dog I own who is too old to enjoy life and in pain, can't see, can't hear, and when the tail can't wag, it's over. I also belong to a Right To Die group..... and they don't let each other suffer. And you know what? Sometimes "ALL of her meds" could be making her worse than she should be. Look at it this way. You are no longer interfering with nature. And there is nothing wrong with that. <3 <3
Sounds like you have made the correct choice for her.
That is difficult to decide upon, sorry to hear such. Sounds like you and your sisters made the best decision though, as hard as it be.
Just went through this with my wife of 30 years. She had gone deaf and blind from Muscular Dystrophy. Her instructions were to not call the doctor if she were having breathing issues. She was having some issues, I just curled up next to her and held her. She smiled.