Perfection is impossible to achieve. A balance of enjoyable activities and blissing out in one's mind goes a long way toward a smile from within which erases those perceived imperfections. Health and happiness may not always equal beauty in the eyes of others, but who cares? Not me, anymore anyway. Done worrying about that.

I would be very pleased if she let herself go. Especially if it was somewhere interesting, and doubly if I could tag along too.

It is not how you look but how you live, that not only, "gets you a life", but that ultimately makes you attractive to others.