I had paid for a member ship was promotional on firsmet I knew about the credit card scam those sites run. I had need to replace my credit card so after I paid the promo fee. I canceled my card. All through the supposed membership time was 3 months I had 1 actual contact was not exactly or even close to a match for me. After the promotion period they tried to charge a 75$ fee after I had sent them a stop my membership email. Since I stopped being a paying member my email had about 5 to 10 matches from that web site appear in my in box daily.