Has anyone spent time in a relationship with someone incapable of emotional expression, only to find themselves emotionally manipulated and thrown away the moment things got difficult for the partner? How do we deal with loss when regret does not exist? How do we let go and move on?
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Seminarian
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Apr 24, 2018
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Not enough information. We are only hearing one side of the story. Her perspective may be entirely different.
dahermit
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Apr 24, 2018
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Hmmmmm.....I'm wondering why you need her perspective to answer these basic questions:
How do we deal with loss when regret does not exist?
How do we let go and move on?
She didn’t express enough of what was in her mind, which was part of the problem. She broke up w me, then asked for another chance. She showed me a journal entry of when we first met; all the things she appreciated about me. She prefaced this reveal with ‘I know I come off as cold and unfeeling.’ She would often say ‘i’m am asshole,’ which I find odd in a human being. Who speaks about themself in this way?
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