Repeat after me;
, I forgive you for anything and everything.
, I forgive myself for anything and everything.
It is far easier to forgive if the perpetrator has already suffered just punishment and justice has been seen to be done.
However, no matter how much you ask for forgiveness you cannot ask a victim to forget.
Ummmmm, having a hard time forgiving you for being a preachy brow-beater...any suggestions?