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We live in a world dominated by marketing, and marketing above all loves to feed narcissism, because narcissists are needy. If you want to believe that you are special, when you are not, and by definition being special is rare, then you will need constant fake evidence of that, to keep away the doubts. And, buy my product, because, people who own this are special. Is always the number one marketing ploy, whether it be a manufactured physical product, like a car, or an immaterial one like a belief system. So that our marketing culture does all that it can to normalize narcissism.

While sadly the one thing that narcissists are least happy with, is the plain, truthful and honest answer to the vast majority of questions, indeed nearly all questions, which is. "I don't know." The narcissist has to have the answers to the big questions, (And even small ones.) because they are surrounded by people who pretend they do, and you can not be, even a bit, less knowing than your neighbor if you are really someone special. While the more extreme the answers, the more special to a mind kept unnaturally immature by indoctrination, they will seem.

So that in a sales and marketing based culture, yes, the number of people who believe in crystals, UFOs, ghosts, Bigfoot, and even, "I am a victim of conspiracy." will increase and multiply.

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There are a number of nurses I work with that believe in crystals. It's so embarrassing when patients give me looks because they overheard medical professionals talking to each other about how to properly cleanse rocks of negative energy with moonlight.

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As the religious, and particularly Jews think themselves special does that mean that they are all narcissistic? And if so can it be cured?

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No disagreement, but marketing and sales are merely the by-product of the economics of capitalism which must pursue endless growth like a junkie on drugs, and the creation of false needs and gratification is at the essence, since filling the emptiness of many people's lives with stuff is what capitalism is all about, with the useful by-product of debt and credit which helps to keep people passive and subservient, and most of all unthinking and unquestioning. I may not by definition be a Marxist but I'm enough of a Marxist to know that he was right when he said that the underlining economic substructure is the basis of all the superstructure of culture, class, ideology and false belief systems that rest upon it.

Very true, and a much bigger picture than mine, since I chose to concentrate on the one aspect. Having said that, I, like Marx, do have some respect for trade as an institution. Since the emergent property of human culture called trade, has and did have, especially in the past, the great quality of subverting the natural competitive nature, that humans share with all animals. Into an institution where providing others with their needs and wants as well as possible, became, quite without any design, the substitute for a lot of violent competition.

That trade then leads to marketing, or in other words, trying to sell people more than they need, is a further emergent property. Which should perhaps be seen as a separate thing to trade. As indeed should perhaps be money, which first emerged to facilitate barter, and its child capitalism, the control of the money supply for gain. Neither of which are essential to trade pure and simple.

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'Cause I gonna make you see
There's nobody else here, no one like me
I'm special (special)
So special (special)
I gotta have some of your attention, give it to me

I always loved that song!!! Thanks! Point well made 🙂

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