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I see things about people that they themselves do not know. It is a dangerous way of living. When people realise you know too much about them they become afraid and shut down or shut you out. Sometimes its the other way around too. I hesitate to engage because of what I see or experience about another person. Life is walking the tight rope..a balancing act. It would be really nice settle with a friend and be completely at peace in companionship. I have a few friends like these. It makes me wealthy.

Twanee 4 May 11
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Wow! You must be telepathetic!

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She bills herself as a kind of relationship expert. It's like she can't even hear the words that are coming out of her mouth. This video and the many people who agree with it just stuns me, she has a long list of different narcissists she has "fallen for" and been the "victim" of and even speculates that she will be making a future video after she gets involved with a cerebral narcissist, which she still needs to check off her bucket list. She also goes on a long and angry rant about being cheated on after first stating it wasn't a "real relationship" and they had agreed at the outset it wasn't exclusive.

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As Vonnegut said,"Don't truth me and I won't truth you"(Sirens of Titan) We all have our blind spots and things about ourselves we'd rather not deal with. Sometimes being a friend is not reminding people about their deficits.

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Just walk the path. Keep an open mind. Be cool. See what happens.

vsh76 Level 5 May 11, 2018
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Not everybody is self aware, but how do you know they do not know those things about themselves if you do not engage them in a conversation? Better yet, how do you know you are right about the things you think you perceive about them?

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What do you mean? Events? Personality traits? Thoughts they have?

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You sound like an empath.

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There's a reason someone came up with the expression "outside the fishbowl looking in."

Of course we see people differently than they see themselves. I mean I see myself as a handsome, dashing and debonair ladies man. My friends tell me, nah.... you're just a crusty old pervert. 😉

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You see things, huh?

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Or so you might think.. I’ve met a woman most others call crazy, as she’s proclaimed the same thing you have here. I don’t believe it, and neigher did/ do they … we just (avoid her when possible) allow her to assume she’s got us all figured out, listen to her wishful takes on life, linking cosmic energy commanding it’s every aspect … and am glad to walk the other way when possible.

In a world all her own, constantly summarizing the experiences of others in some ‘all-knowing’ BS way.. My 3 hour ride home after dropping her off at the nearest international airport was far more pleasant than the one getting there 😕

Varn Level 8 May 11, 2018
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Are you a medium or are you well done ?

hahaha. Someone at work once announced to me that she was a medium. I looked at myself and responded, "I'm more of a large."

@FortyTwo
Good one !

@FortyTwo, @pixiedust
Any size will do ? Lol

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