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How do the men here feel about having a relationship with ? "an older woman"? Not just in private, either. A friendship that grows into a comfortable, easy...coupling. LOL. I hate labels, but needed to express this SOMEHOW. Thanks in advance. Be honest, but not unkind, please. ? (Having asked this, I should say I love men of all ages. Attraction is hard to quantify. Sapiosexual. Not ever sure I'll be interested in ANYONE long-term. Haven't been yet. I'm OK either way).

FoundMyNietzsche 6 May 12
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Yes, absolutely.

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I have not had a dating relationship with an older women, but I have been attracted to them throughout my life and would be open to a relationship with one, although I'm now in the older category. Age is a number, I'm more interested in "attitude." I've seen women younger than myself that behave and think "older" than me. They are unwilling to try new things, go new places, question life, and instead stick to the familiar and predictable and be rather boring. Besides, an older women with a youthful attitude will usually be more experienced in life, cooking, sex, travel, or whatever and thus usually more interesting.

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Strictly speaking, younger women can be a seen as more attractive to many males for aesthetic reasons.This is an enormous generalisation,with millions of mind bogglingly beautiful exceptions.

However same age to older by say 10 years can be much more sexually compatible in many ways. And definitely mentally more stimulating..again with millions of exceptions.

There are so many exceptions that it comes down to the two individuals involved in personal taste.

Many men talk about young slim women in the locker rooms of the world..but privately fantasize about curvy older women.

I hope this helps.

@FoundMyNietzsche
You're very welcome, any time.

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Age is right up there with race in my book. I giveth not one shit.

@FoundMyNietzsche
And thou rocketh as well!

@FoundMyNietzsche You are more than welcome, but there is no need to thank me.

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At 68 yrs.old I have recently dated a few older women, nothing serious just having fun. Oldest one was 83 yrs. was a delight to be with, she looked great went to gym 5 times a week, always going on vacation by herself, strong healthy personality. My best friend is 72 yrs. old, she looks 50 and hoot to go out with. just to name a few.

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How do I feel having a relationship with an older woman...... I am 54, at my age what I want/need is companionship, support (emotional not financial), conversation, enjoy each other's company, same intetest, go to the movies because both want to see the same stuff, simple things like that and most importantly, compatibility so we both bring out the best on us (this must be a two way street). I wouldn't like a relationship with a younger woman with needs to party, it wouldn't be fair for her. I have been looking for this and so far no luck. Either I have been looking in the wrong places or this is more difficult than what it seems....

@FoundMyNietzsche all feedback is appreciated !!

@FoundMyNietzsche sorry about the short response... I was running errands and it's hard to type on my phone tiny keyboard. I am home now at my PC, so here it goes. First of all, thank you very much for your generous response. I have been asked quite a few times if I have been traumatized or something, as in why do I present myself as "nobody". My answer has always been the same, this is a virtual space where I like to express ideas and learn from everyone. We all have real a real life and I am somebody on that one, no doubt about it. So, rest assure this "IamNobody" is not meant to get people to feel sorry for me. Quite contraire, I want people to get interested in talking to/with me because of what I think, not because of how I am or what I do. Let alone how I look. Now, regarding my picture. Two members of this site have asked and I have send it. That's not an issue. But then again, I will have to emphasize that here we all are digital entities. Pictures can be bogus, credentials can be fake, etc. I still appreciate your concern, don't get me wrong. I am just trying to explain where I am coming from. I have too much reality in my life (work, family, responsabilites, problems.. the list goes on and on) so a little bit of fantasy works for me. I am not sure if parallel universes do exit and yet, this site feels like one. Last thing I want to say, since I want to talk to whoever wants to talk to me, I new since the beginning that I wasn't going to hold my breath hoping to find the right person here. Not many people close by to begin with. Anyhow, life goes on and I could tell you a lot of stories about the people I have meet along the way in the last six months only and you would be surprised. There have been lots of opportunities but nothing even close to what I want. As I have said, it's harder than what it seems. So, long story short, no worries about my site name, it's just a name....nothing more, nothing else. And thanks for such a great question !!!!

@FoundMyNietzsche it has been a pleasure talking to you so far. Looking forward to keeping the door open. Thanks for all your comments !!

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My soon to ex-wife was 10 years older than me. It's really based on connection for me.

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I like women to be a little older than me. Young ones are often too immature.

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Why should there be a question except it was the tradition since men died sooner and so the woman looked for older guys for retirement income and life insurance. I think?

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