Friend zone. There is a good looking girl. 20 years younger than me. Has been telling me she thinks he is screing around on her. Tonight she tells me he is now her ex and was screwing around on her. I told her that she had already suspected it. That's where me and other friend zoned people get to hear about their bad choices. We discussed what she liked in a man as opposed to what worked. Maybe look at the people you put in the friend zone? Instead of what doesn't/hasn't worked so far? I was not pushing myself on her. Being 20 years younger than me and having kids, not to mention several pets, I have no inclination to even try. Just a friend zone rant.
Next time she tries to use you as a free therapist, tell her that you do not hold a degree in psycholigical analysis, and if you did your fee would be $300.00/ hr.
You need to make her understand that you are with her in order to hang out and have fun together. If all she wants you for is someone to piss and moan to every time she makes a poor decision, then you're investing your time, your energy and your emotional well being in to a dead end pursuit.
The friend zone doesn't exist. Read it. Learn it. Live it.
I read it, I agree.