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Not all religious concepts are necessarily bad. For example Godparents.
Both my Atheist children are godparents to some of their friends' children, but in the sense of promising to look after the children should a problem befall their natural parents, and "being there" for them on birthdays, and special occasions.
They certainly do nothing in the religious sense.
Perhaps one needs an Atheist baptism ceremony.

Petter 9 May 25
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i don't think the concept of "godparents" is a religious invention. it would rather have evolved in the early times of humanity, when mortality was a very random & oft occurring event. the tribe would provide a certain protective net for its offspring, in case the natural parents should die too soon for the safety of their children. who needs religion for that? all it takes is the humane way.

True - but I like the idea of a "welcome to the baby" party, with a man and a woman promising to be safety-net parents, and who then befriend the baby, giving it little gifts and birthday cards over the for years to come.

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What exactly would an Atheist be baptized for? What would be the purpose? I agree that there are some very good concepts being taught and being open minded I adopt the practices that I agree with and dismiss those I do not. I personally think it is ignorant to dismiss all things religious due only to the source of origin. I am not religious but I give %10 to people that need help so I tithe but not to a church. To refuse to do it only because I learned about tithing in church is as ridiculous as doing it for the same reason. Yoga and meditation are religious practices and I do both. Not doing something just because it is taught in a church is not being authentic to ourselves but baptism for atheists? That makes absolutely no sense to me. Then we would be creating atheist rituals and it would become a religion. Also baptism is directly connected to Christianity so again I ask why would an atheist get baptized? Why not just have a swimming party every year and then t would be tradition instead of ritualistic.

No baptism, merely a formal piss-up during which two different families promise to look after the new child if need be.

@Petter Lol "a formal piss-up" that cracked me up and so true too!

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I LOVE Christmas... Whats the harm in celebrating Santa's Birthday?

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I agree.

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I agree. And the feeling of being chosen to be someone a parent would trust with the welfare of their child, should something befall the parents, is a huge honor.

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What term would you replace God parent with?
BTW, Totally agree with you on customs and some rituals. I view them as cultural rather than religious. I lot of them were usurped by Christianity.

I would favour "goodparent", since it is similar yet is not Christianity.

@Petter I really like that.

Try mentor.

I prefer "Evil Uncle Rick" with the nephews and nieces.

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