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The majority of Christians go to church because they are looking for friendship. They are lonely people who just want to be accepted. I have seen it over and over in every church I have studied! Therefore I wonder if atheists offered a place where people could come and meet friends, just like this site but a physical place, if more Christians would be realistic in their thought process and be willing to deny false Jesus?

IpraiseMYSELF 6 May 25
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I think at least part of the reason many people attend church is because they’re AFRAID of death and dying. It’s for that same reason they believe in God.

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Well, there are meetups, social groups and such for secular/nonbelivers for networking, activities, political action, and support.
I get notices from FFRF and others bi-weekly.
Never noticed a line of believers banging on the door.

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People need and look for community / belonging / refuge, and that means a tribal, "us vs them" side effect. This is not a problem with religions specifically, but with human nature.

Atheists already do offer these things, though not at scale. There is a "Sunday Assembly" movement that started 3 or 4 years ago in the UK and spread to the US. The problem as I see it is that atheism isn't enough of a basis for community. It's like herding cats. Something broader like secularism or secular humanism or rationalism or skepticism or something like that might work better. Considered atheism is, after all, a side effect of skeptical / critical thinking -- of not affording belief to the unsubstantiated.

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I would think the majority of people are looking for friends. We are a social specie. I would be surprised if any group wasn't. No anything atheists have to offer, Christians aren't interested in. I mean they think we eat babies! :>Г I live in the bible belt, I keep my shit on the down low. I like being self employed.

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I would think the majority of people are looking for friends. We are a social specie. I would be surprised if any group wasn't. No anything atheists have to offer, Christians aren't interested in. I mean they think we eat babies! :>Г I live in the bible belt, I keep my shit on the down low. I like being self employed.

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In a perfect world there would be a gathering place for like minded individuals that had nothing to do with religion. I’d be happy to be able to go to a place where religious (and political) speech was forbidden and chill. Unfortunately, my current latitude has no such options and people who would participate in this would be outcast in a way that would stop just short of lynching.

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I have a Chinese friend living in the USA. When he arrived here he was lonely and turned to Christianity for company and is agnostic now. My Indian Hindu friends turn more religious after coming here and form a close community. There is a Christian organization that preys on international students who have just arrived. Just adding these to the discussion! I agree that there are a lot of people who choose religion just because it is the easiest way to get some company.

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Majority no but I am sure some people do. Lonely people may go to church, ones who were not very religious to begin, on the fence. Now they attend church functions and feel welcomed. All new friends are religious and they are prone to start believing.

IMO, I don't think Atheists want to gather in designated places because now it begins to look similar to church. Would think trying to get a few people together here are there would work better. Have this site to try and do that. Can be for friendship, not just dating.

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Not just the lonely. Fellowship, community, shared activities. Most church stuff has nothing to do with the belief crap.

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It is a form of tribalism, being part of a support group. It is no different than AA.

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Isn't that the Universalist Unitarian?

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I think you are wrong. Most people go th church because they believe in the religion and because they are concerned about their "salvation." As a child and teenager with religious parents, that is what I observed.

I have studied many churches and I see nothing but self serving people there to meet their own needs, whatever they might be! If they were really concerned with salvation they would follow what Jesus said and none of them do. Jesus calls his followers to " pick up your cross and follow me." This is a call to be a martyr and Jesus' disciples actually did this so why do Christians now think that this is not supposed to be taken literally? Most likely because they only care about what the religion can do for them and not salvation. Even though salvation is yet another selfish act!

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So that's what groups are about. Have long noticed the community aspect of those places and wondered how an atheist one would go.

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I know what you mean, and it seems logical, but while it would be a help for atheists, I don't think it would change any Christian's minds. That's what they grew up with, that's what they know, and I think they'd be afraid of associating with atheists.

I hope your not right because there are a lot of Christians out there, but I see what you mean. Then again I was Christian for 10 years and even a pastor to high school kids. Now I have made it my life goal to show Christians the hypocrisy of this religion and others like it. I often preached of the freedom that came with believing in Jesus but now I see how much I was in slavery to this cult! I just wish I could show people the real freedom I experience now as an atheist.

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I hear this quite often from other atheist. They miss the community of church.
Here we have a few group's thank goodness.
You could always start a group. Just meet at a local restaurant once a week. You may be surprised how fast it grows.

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I think this is true.

And it's a golden opportunity for humanists, atheists and all non theists to come together in places of non worship.

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