Both of my last two long term partners had parents who supported Trump. The last one's father was the assistant police chief and said "God did not intend for the races to mix" and "forbid" his daughter to date other races. He also was a giant man baby who would throw a screaming fit in, public no less, for the smallest things like "Missing the previews" before a movie or heaven forbid he missed some weekend football.

I live in a red area of a red state. I have to learn to deal with these individuals, but I currently have zero patience for them. My coping technique so far has been to restrict my comments to the weather, resist rolling my eyes at what they say and avoid contact as much as possible. My exes did not like that, and I broke it off with them because, predictably, they sided with there parents over me.

When most of my neighbors are racist, nationalist, cultists, how do I go about dating there daughters. Or find people that are not indoctrinated by right wing brainwashing?