What do you say to someone that insists that "God" is the one that makes is possible to live life? i.e. pay bills,escape a bad situation ...
What would I say? "My, what a lack of agency you have!" : )
I'm not sure there's much that you can do. I had a professor once who answered questions like "will the assignment be graded by the end of the week" with responses like "God willing". Very frustrating.
I just find it sad. When someone finds the strength to keep going through adversity but thinks that the strength isn't theirs, that's just fucking depressing. Imagine if Michael Phelps truly believed that his accomplishments were really due to a coach literally pushing him through the water and that he couldn't do any of it himself. It's depressing as fuck.
There's a Portland food bank that's about to shut down. Suppose that's cuz his checks weren't clearing?
Do you really want such a fairy tale to control your life? ... Oh, you believe it's reality? Please show me the evidence.
That the same one that answers thoughts and prayers after a shooting?