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Are you "out" to all in your life in terms of your atheism, agnosticism?

If not, who do you keep it from, and why?

Jmac17 3 Jan 4
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Yes. I refuse to be a hypocrite and act as thought I believe in order to avoid hurting someone else's feelings. The only people who do not know are those folks with whom I have never been in any sort of religious setting or discussion. I don't exactly advertise that I am atheist, but if my views are relevant to a situation I certainly do not hide it either.

If someone cannot deal with the fact that I am atheist, then that is not someone I need in my life. If someone is willing to accept that I am atheist, even if they disagree, that's fine and, in fact, I enjoy the occasional debate!

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Yes, it is not a secret. I choose not to push it in people’s faces, but everyone knows.

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I only keep it from my grandfather. He's deeply religious and I care about him. He would likely take it very badly, and he's already had to suffer through losing his son (my father). I won't lie if he asks me about it, but I don't intend to bring it up.

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I'm happy to discuss my godlessness with anyone, under appropriate circumstances. Everyone I know well enough to have ever discussed religion with knows my stance on the issue. I wouldn't necessarily go ranting against religion to my boss, though I wouldn't hide my position if it came up in conversation, but most of my coworkers have heard me bitch about religion from time to time.

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Yes, everyone who knows me knows. And although I don't go around yelling it, I do say so when the topic of religion comes up.

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Family absolutely knows (many of them are Atheists as well) , I'm vocal about it on FB, so all my FB friends definitely know, and a few co-workers. I don't advertise it to most coworkers & definitely not to my boss or team; most of them are big-time believers (but, thankfully, nice about it/not proselytizing) who would not be able to understand how any one can not believe. It's too important that I maintain a very solid relationship with these people, for my life/livelihood, so that's where I'm fully closeted.

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Yes, but I don't necessarily go out of my way to bring it up. When I was doing my therapy internship, I wouldn't tell my clients unless they asked. Many of them derived great comfort from the idea of god. Self disclosure that is not in service to the client is considered unethical.

I think we should leave it alone unless it is contextually appropriate or when asked a direct question. Wouldn't you like it if all the religious people would just STFU?

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Well the elders of my southern African American family (80 yrs +) I see no reason to share this with them as the church had a meaning in their lives that I can never comprehend and only get from their stories and the history books. Its a choice.

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I’m open about it, but I don’t walk around with an agnostic badge on. It’s a perspective, not a club.

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I'm pretty much out. I don't ever make an issue of it, I don' t know who "knows" and who doesn't, or even if any of my friends or acquaintances care. Those who matter know.

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The older I have gotten and the more religious hypocracy I see the easier it became.

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I've been a non-believer since I was 16.

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