What are your top 3 first date red flags? Those things said or done that will ensure you don't go out with this person twice.
The list is endless. Perhaps that's why I am choosing to remain single.
The biggest one is if they spend an inordinate amount of time bitching about their ex.
Mentioning the mistake can over time become like an interjection - "god","jc" or even a punctuation or nervous pause to think of further subject matter.
Body odor
Male companion
Evidence of intravenous drug use....I.e., track marks
If your date shows up with a guy, bad day. @witchymom
Hmmmm frankly I’d rather have you alone. @witchymom
@Gatovicolo LMAO.
@witchymom - 3some? ... 2F1M sounds interesting, 2M1F I prefer one on one and toys
Conversation lag
no laughter
complainer
chance for intimacy-sharing-feeding each other
Iguess I'm weird-I like it-its intimate.
sloppy-stained, torn, smelly, no effort
Eastern Steamboat?
I can forgive most other things, (and I can 'forgive' these; I just won't ask them out again) but these are, in my humble opinion, signs of deeper issues with a person.
Sometimes flags don't show on the first date. I remember after leaving the hotel... she said she don't do "dinners". But I worked around that and we still in touch. Not telling me she is married is an uncomfortable matter to me. I don't like to eat in another man's plate, out of respect for manhood. Trying to pick up a fight with every woman that knows me... that's a deal breaker.
Is intolerant of information, calls it "racist"/Is a closeminded liberal.
Is fat, ugly or slobby.
Brings a pet with him that he couldn't live without. . . Sign of Narcissism or pathological altruism.
If they continue to drink too much on your dates (and if they drive)
If they're asses to the waitstaff.
If they don't tip.
If they talk about others.
If they admit that they've cheated on their recent partners.
If they like Country and Western Music (Or Jazz Fusion).
If they flirt with the waiter on our date.
She has a mustache
she has a tattoo on her forehead of former boyfriend
she is addicted to heroin
Trump voter or a smoker
I wouldn't tolerate anyone who hated America/ a democrat!!
% of time talking versus.
Not understanding basic policy
Not understanding basic science
chewing with an open pie hole
Entitlement attitude
If most of the stated red flags had been questioned prior to dating why go on the date?
If I were dating.
@witchymom it is not the travelling that is important but the travelling companion and people met on the journey that enhance the scenery.
@witchymom The idea behind travel and its importance, really tells me if they are interested in learning about something new. the idea of gaining new knowledge is critical for me
@witchymom you are correct. Travelling through most cities is a pain in the head no matter who is travelling with you ... unless you are on a rail car with a satisfying clickety click, clickety click to lull you to sleep in which case you are sleeping not travelling.
@witchymom please help me understand how being stuck in a 3 hour traffic jam on your own is lovable?
*Makes racist or bigotry comments.
*Does not like animals.
*Stands for nothing.