Agnostic.com

34 5

Which are you more concerned about in a relationship: being smothered or being abandoned?

Muttcuts 4 Jan 17
Share

Enjoy being online again!

Welcome to the community of good people who base their values on evidence and appreciate civil discourse - the social network you will enjoy.

Create your free account

34 comments (26 - 34)

Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.

0

In one sense I feel abandoned now but I have to look at it in reverse also. Maybe our divorce was abandonment. On the other hand, I have always been afraid of being smothered. Being smothered by another human being is the worst.

0

Being smothered

0

I used to have a cabin on 96 acres in Northern CA. I'd go up for weekends with my dog. A good weekend was when I didn't see another human from Friday night to Sunday night. Introvert, no smothering allowed.

Not that abandonment is good but at least the intent is crystal clear.

0

neither.

0

I need my time alone for myself. Time for everything.

0

Smothered. if someone leaves me- it just wasn't right/wasn't meant to be. when someone smothers, it's not right either, but it's that person not accepting it.

0

Being annoyed beyond my capacity to be civil.

0

Well being smothered of course.

0

both i think

Write Comment
You can include a link to this post in your posts and comments by including the text q:16088
Agnostic does not evaluate or guarantee the accuracy of any content. Read full disclaimer.