Oh shit is that a thing?! My passengers are always grateful to be alive, I’m giving them excitement! Does explain why they always offer to drive...?

I think I would just be the driver from now on.

I feel like we tend to be a "more extreme" version of us behind the wheel. So if they're aggressive, or obnoxious, or tailgate and weave in and out of traffic... That's probably how they cope in otherwise 'normal' stressful situations, and I suspect that it would make me pay attention to the person I'm with...

However... if they drive slow in the left lane... Not only a deal-breaker, but I'll tell all their friends.

The rules are simple, and one of those rules is "I drive".

I get alot of anxiety when in the car with a reckless or bad driver. It just drives me crazy maybe I'm just too sensitive but I don't think I could handle a partner who doesn't drive well. Or if anything id have to drive everywhere.