My 2nd husband and last boyfriend were malignant narcissists. Will NEVER go through that again.

Usually I'm the one with mental health issues (Borderline Personality and possibly PTSD)

After reading many comments of lost due mental illness, I can say that I been very fortunate... though at the first mention during an argument of "you are driving me crazy". I have the tendency to end things. They are able to live normal lives once I leave. I don't want to cause the demise of anyone and that include a lover and partner. I will like to believe if the deal is real I will stick around for support as I did when my GF in Germany had Cancer and went through Chemo therapy.

Borderline Personality Disorder, they don’t even seem to know what they are doing. They are convinced though there is nothing wrong and make crazy decisions. She always seemed to bounce back, but I have been told it gets worse with age. I do wish they would consider conventional medication as well as the holistic counseling approach she has been angaged in. Life is truely on eggshells. It has caused waves in the far reaches of our lives.

My ex blames the end of our marriage on my mental health issues. Truth is we both had or have mental health challenges, mine were being address and treated. Neither of us was a danger to self or others. but his method of dealing with his issues did not make for a good relationship or home life. Everyone is happier since we split, and the kids have told me they wish I'd done it sooner.