Your love language?
Over my years of fanatic interest in psychology I've learned there are five hypothesized love languages
Acts of kindness
Words of adoration
Physical touch (non sexual)
A big factor in failed relationships can be misaligned love languages. If you don't speak a language it won't make sense. For example, I don't understand gift giving. I can pick out what I need better than anyone else, don't waste your money. What languages do you speak? Do you not speak? Any crazy instances where others just didn't get it?