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How to tell someone you appreciate them

A little back history I dealt with some harassment at work by a man it started as sexual harassment and ended and just plain childish harassment and a different man at work had stood up for me and I would like some help in telling him I appreciate is helping hand and concern though all of the mess..

Allikat 6 Dec 15

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Maybe a simple note to thank him and let him know it was greatly appreciated. I wouldn't ask him out or anything, even for a drink or something casual.. that might turn into something awkward and you don't need that.

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"I wanted you to know that I really appreciated your support , when things were getting uncomfortable for me a while back. You rock ! "

Personally, I'd bake him something too ...

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Just tell him. Be specific. Be sure it comes from your heart.

I was tryign to think of what to day, than I read this one, and I'm like... Yeah, that's good advice.

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Gift cards,paid meal at a good eating place they like,have the oil changed on their car, and do an under the hood inspection for belts,hoses,and any leaks.

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Tell them in person. You could say nice socks they contain a terrific person.

I like it.

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Be cautious. I have attempted to say similar things and been accused of flirtation.

Keep it formal, so as not to get too many emotions involved.

That was a helpful and appreciated action. I sometimes wish I had a hired throat puncher for such occasions.

I was a contracted in worker, and now don't work there anymore. After the whole thing i put in my 2 week notice and in tge 3rd day was told i wasnt needed to come in anymore. I never got to properly thank this man for helpumg me stand up for myself. I was going to give the letter to a friend to give him but don't want any issues with thanking him for being a good person.

@Allikat I think it's great that you're writing it down.

Seems fine. ?

@Donotbelieve thank you. It makes me feel better to thank him. My friend that still works there said he was very sad when he realized that I wasn't coming back. It's not his problem and he needs to know his efforts were appreciated

@Donotbelieve I think a simple thank-you card expressing your gratitude to him in a formal way would be very welcome.

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"I appreciate you and what you have done for me. I admire you and I am proud of you"

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