I’ve bonded with people and it’s brought me joy but I’ve never loved someone. I feel that humans have put their own fairy-tale definition on what love is. Love to me is a healed cut. I need someone to help further my thoughts.
I think a lot of people believe love is that thing you feel when puberty sets and you began noticing the opposite gender (or same gender if you're gay or whatever lol), which then leads to butterflies in your stomach, which sometimes leads to rejection, which then leads to that feeling of a "broken heart". But, in my opinion, this is lust/infatuation with the opposite (or same) gender. The heart broken feeling would be the feeling of rejection and/or loneliness.
However, I know what love is to me because I've had it, and still have it with my nieces and nephews. No, I'm not some weird sex criminal lol
To me, love is giving up EVERYTHING for the person(s) in question, including life and freedom. For me, It isn't about sex, although I do believe you can make love to someone you do love. I know I truly love someone when they leave for an extended period of time and I'm constantly thinking about their wellbeing and safety.
Thats just a few of what I believe to be signs that one loves another unconditionally.
Baby don’t hurt me.
Don’t hurt me.
No more.
Lol
Love is a lie.
"Love is a subjective condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own happiness." - R. A. Heinlein
Love is a four letter word. Although I do love ice cream
Yes. The term love is misleading. Like you. I have gotten close with a few humans but the feeling of love that many talk about.
I used to think I knew what love was. Having suffered from it, I now call it "attachment", and I hope I never suffer from it again.