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What's your biggest regret?

Mine is: Getting married, complete and total waste of time.

Redcupcoffee 7 Feb 27

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I regret nothing.

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Honestly it's been telling the wrong people what my greatest regrets are. 😉

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Not trying harder with my ex.
I had a vivid dream about her two days ago that stuck with me all day. It made my heart hurt.

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How would I know? Next week I may have a different opinion. Even when I may had said... letting this woman go three months ago. And yesterday I may tell you... well, she is back in my life you know? I don't know next week what it will be... That job I declined, the woman I did not followed to the west coast, the ones left overseas? The one in the south? the one in the island? Those I ran away from? It is just decisions... No Regrets what so over. "Que Sera Sera, Whatever May Be, May Be". Just Live and Learn but No Regrets.... It is all a Good Ride to Enjoy.

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Try not to regret anything. Wish I hadn't done loads of things but regret them naaah

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I regret reading in one of your post, about how boring men are. 😀
Jk, jk. I'm not sure, lending a friends some money that they still have not paid me all of it back and now they are ghosting me. Feel pretty dumb about that recently.

JeffB Level 6 Feb 27, 2018
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Not having kids sooner.

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Falling for the wrong woman. I fell madly in love with someone and thought she loved me as well. Turned out I was very wrong. Of course I did not find that out until after 6 years and a child.

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I really don't have regrets. However there are things in hindsight I would do differently.

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Having no regrets..... 😉

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Meeting, and marrying, the man I am currently divorcing. I also wish I had become an atheist earlier in my life.

Always better than never.

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< I regret not getting a bottle of scotch to go with this cigar.

ha!

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It is not a waste of time if you learned something out of it. Granted the returns may not warrant the time dedicated but... Live and Learn.

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Mine was not focusing on my music lessons like I should have. I was pretty lazy when it came to practicing, and I wonder what kind of musician I could have been had I worked harder at it.

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I don't really have regrets , I saw my life as just learning - I am sure that I had them fleetingly after relationship break up s etc. at the time but they faded away -and were replaced by a new challenge' I married a right eejit but life was kind and he mostly stayed out of my life _ I think I had quite a big life (in my own terms as I was up for anything anyone proposed) - I'll be 70 shortly and still no regrets nothing left undone that I wanted to do - which is just as well really ,

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Giving a Fuck for as long as I did. Being chill suits me much finer

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In my teens, listening to what people told me about not being able to pursue my career choices

I'm in the same boat currently

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It's tough to regret my marriage because the kids that resulted from that hellish nightmare are the most important thing in my life and my greatest accomplishments. I do regret having been stupid enough to stay as long as I did.

I regret rushing into a bad relationship shortly after my ex and I separated.

JimG Level 8 Feb 27, 2018
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When I saw Prince in 2001, they announced after the show that there was an after party at a little nightclub known mostly for hosting heavy metal acts -- in fact, it was the same nightclub where Dimebag Darrell was murdered on stage... Anyhow, my friend and I laughed at the idea of Prince being at a heavy metal club and we went on home... The next day, I found out that not only was Prince there, but he played an acoustic set of requests and he mingled with the crowd too... He was there until like 3am... Boy, do I regret not going to that!!!

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My biggest regret is not sticking with dance when I was 6. My mom pulled me out because I just wasn't good at it, but that moment created a major flaw in me and I never gave 100% again at anything. It caused me to give up at everything if I wasn't good at it and set me up for failure. I've since realized that was the critical moment in my life that dictated my personality and am trying to change it, but yeah.

@Redcupcoffee thank you. I'm now in taekwando and really bad at it lol. My physical condition has worsened to the point that I struggle a lot, but my Dojang is super supportive and help me to not lose my passion for it. I hope to stick with it!

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Not trying my best in highschool

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I can't possibly time travel in my lifetime. I believe you never have to regret about anything in life coz at that moment what you have done was right to you and there are plenty of things beyond human comprehension.

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I really try not to live with regrets, however, try as I might I have too many to list. If I had to pick one it would be giving my youngest daughter to her father while I suffered a nervous breakdown. I feel she would be a totally different person if I would have brought her with me while I healed.

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choosing NOT to sleep with this NBA ball player when I had the chance!

@Redcupcoffee yeah... i wanted to soooooo bad ! but i was like, i am probably like # 1007 that has done this

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Is that the legal and social statement thing? Or is it the emotional and sexual relationship part?

@Redcupcoffee I would not want to presume anything. If there is still a sense of bitterness I hope you resolve it some way. Nice to have made contact with you.

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